jaane kyon???

jaane kyon log advice karte hai?
jaane kyon hum woh bhi sunte hai?
jane kyonnnnnnnnn ho jane kyon?
jane kyon jane kyon jane kyon?


ya its a popular song from dil chahta hai! only lyrics have been changed a bit. pyaar ki jagah advice word. dsnt make a big difference i guess...... both things are usually done with unreasonable mind and thought. people fall in love without knowing wot they are doing. and its the same with advices........they give it unknowingly.......i still wonder why are dere always so many advices???? do this, dont do that! do it like this, dont do it like that! prying relatives can be real pain at times with unnecessary advices at unwanted times!most often their advices are simply irritating and bring the brain's logical reasoning abilities to a screeching halt!!!!!!!!!!! eeeeeeeeeeeeeeehhhhhhhh! ya exactly like dat.

it can be from the smallest thing like wearing the right type of footwear to some big things like ur financial issues.
well all advice isnt wrong or bad advice, i guess it depends on the person from whom it is coming!! if we love and respect that person then its taken in the right spirit! else i guess its considered as an unnecessary meddling in ur affairs. so i guess receiving advice is completely subjective.
we say that if we dont really care then ek kaan se sunneka aur dusre se chodneka.......... but the problem is in between it passes through our human brain which has the capability to actually register some unwanted things..(unfortunately important things like exam answers or banking passwords hardly get registered)!!!!! these unwanted things keep creeping in at unwanted times..... like when we are relaxing, just up from afternoon siesta, or some other peaceful times.......isne aisa kyon kaha? wot must be the meaning of that statement....... no no wot is the hidden meaning of that statement? but did he/she really mean that when he/she said that???? etc etc...... and that brings us to the root cause and mother of all problems.......FIGHTS!!!!
ya these fights can turn so ugly that they may destroy family relations.......both parties are aggrieved... one coz thier advice wsnt taken and the other coz the advice was given.
but inspite of all this does anybody stop giving advices???? will it ever stop? i dont think so...... it can never ever stop i think......and it should never ever stop. else how will the world go on?????????????

jai bhim!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ystdy ws 6th december...... one of the most dreaded days in mumbai!!!!!!! actually there were 2 events on 6th december..... the first one is death anniversary of babasaheb ambedkar and second is demolition of babri masjid.......... both huge events which caused an upheavel in indian politics. while the latter event was dreaded till some time back.... the first event gives goosebumps, filth and much more to mumbai city........ the entire city almost avoids dadar area like its untouchable...... ouch did i say untouchable??????? well the fact is that the dalits " so called untouchables of the past" come each year at chaityabhoomi which is located at dadar shivaji park and comemmorate their great leader ambedkar!!!! but the problem is they dont come in ones or twos..... they come in droves of lakhs and crores of people from thoroughout the length and breadth of the country!!!! fine, this shdnt be too much of a problem actually... some people cmng to pay respect to their dead leader shdnt cause any problem to anybody.... but unfortunately it does!! the people squat on the road....not that its uncommon in mumbai, they bathe on the roads...... dat too is pretty common in mumbai....... but the thing is this is done by lakhs and lakhs of people who come to pay respect to their leader. people in mumbai avoid the local trains, buses, offices, schools, colleges etc etc. in short many people hate to get out of their homes on this day!



and why does all this happen? is it bcoz of too much of rush? or is it bcoz we dont wanna mingle with "that type of crowd?" have we actually achieved freedom from untouchabiltity? or is it that we dont show our discontent publicly???



jai bhim!!!!

another picnic!!!!!!!

ya one more picnic.... albeit this time it was with mulund(e), (w), and airoli nerul branches! wah wot fun and frolic! really enjoyed myself!! it ws on 2nd december and again same place.........nishiland water park!!! but ya i enjoyed it!!!!!!!

aaaah! picnic!!!!!!!! yipeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

yesterday had a picnic in nishiland water park with my students! wot fun we had!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well to start with i wsnt seen in my usual salwar kameez avtaar which really shocked the students...... imagine for so many months now, they are used to seeing me in crisp cotton salwar kameez with an amboda(hairstyle haan..... hair tied up together in a bun)........ looking ateast 30 yrs of age. and then suddenly i was seen in these trendy 3/4ths (capris so to call... dont know why they are called so) 1 ponytail and a nice T shirt..... man were they all shocked!!!! they were dazed, many cldnt beleive it was their teacher, miss, madam or wotever else nicknames they call me by! well frankly spkng i loved it! i wntd to create that impact on them, that, i too can be very very trendy! i loved every minute of the adulation these young kids were showering on me! it felt good that a whole years had work hadnt gone unnoticed and they really cared for the teachers, laughed when we laughed, cried when we cried etc etc.

picinc was fun, dhamaal! only for a 1-2 small hiccups. a girl injured herself real bad. nasty fall she had and was bleeding! she wsnt sorry that she hd hurt herself but was more scared to face her mom, who ofcourse wld be too shocked to see her poor daughter all bandaged up. i really pray for her speedy recovery.

hmm but throughout all this i really missed one person. my hubby, i mean though he wldnt be able to accompany me for the picnic, the thgt of not being able to see him after a very very tired and weary day made me more tired. though i hvnt told him so but i really am missing him........ and yup a lot! wtng eagerly for u honey!

a new day has begun

hello friends.........

kinda lost touch with my blog a/c for looooong. was too damn busy to update and put any posts dere. but busy for one whole year????? thats too much na. anyways have again thought of updating the blog from time to time if not regularly.


in the past year there have been innumerable changes in my life......... from being a fat hausfrau in naperville, chicago..... i have come back to amchi mumbai and am a busy busy working woman!!!


working woman! wow dats cool na! why is a working woman considered so different?? i mean dont men also work? do we call them as working men? no na? then y so for women? maybe bcoz we are suppossed to have a place in the home only? be in the kitchen? cook good food? watch tv and discuss the numerous plots in the soap operas?

just now on tv i can see madhuri dixit nene dancing to some song in the upcoming movie aaja nachle. she too is a working woman!! (chuckles) though she must be having a host a of people helping her in domestic work.
hey its farah khans movie trailor now.... OSO..... again another working woman! hell now i see kareena kapoor too! but nah she isnt a working woman!!!!!!! nah! y? coz she isnt married yaar!

that brings me to the conclusion that we still feel after marriage a woman shd be @ home not in the office. y else wld we hv that phrase.... working woman? and ya sometimes the hostility that i have to face from my male colleagues lets me know that according to them i am in an unwanted place or rather that maybe i am snatching their bread and butter! possible na!

i feel a working woman is considered as threat coz men find it perplexing to know that the women is ably managing her home as well as office. how the hell can she do it??? threat hmmmm.... dats an intresting take on working women! and hey there are many things attached to a working woman...... failure in a personal life is attributed to her working status and vice versa! how cool na! blame it somehow or the other on her working status!

behind every succesful man there is a woman! and wot is this woman supposed to do? listen to all the problems that the husband is facing? cook him delicious food and brighten up his mood? help him sort out his problems?
well i will like to change the above phrase a bit:- behind every succesful man there is a succesful working woman!! one who is always dere for the husband when he needs her. one who cooks his favourite dishes. one who sorts out his problems. and one who works and helps him financially too.

WHY ME??

WHY ME????

hvnt v often asked dat question??? why me??
it starts right from the time v r a small baby... girls have to get their ears pierced and it hurts... then its why me??? v hv to take injections or vaccinations.. it hurts ... then its why me?? u r not admitted into the school ur parents wanted to put u into coz u r underage... it hurts... then its why me?? u donot bcum class monitor... it hurts.. then its why me?? u come last in ur PT race... it hurts... then its why me?? u underscore for ur 10th exams.. and donot get admission into college of ur choice... it hurts... then its why me?? in a class of 120 students u r among the 10 students who flunked an exam... then its why me??? u have a crush on a guy.. ur abt to talk to him on friendship day... u see him with his girlfriend... it hurts... then its why me??? u fall ill just b4 ur CAT exams... u cant appear dat year.. it hurts.. then its why me?? u dont get the job of ur choice and have to make a compromise.. it hurts.. then its why me?? looking out for ur soulmate.. u r rejected atleast 10 times by 10 guys.. it hurts... then its why me?? u get married...stay away from ur parents... it hurts.. then its why me?? tough times fall upon u and ur family for some time... it hurts.. then its why me???

well i have rchd only this stage till now.... many more why me's to go through!!! but why me???

it seems to me dat v tend to have self pity only in our bad times!! not the good times! why dont v tend to think why me when things r going good for us??

for example.. it hurts when v hv to pierce our ears as a baby... but arnt v lucky to be given birth to... and not suffered any complications during birth?? then y isnt it at dat time... why me?? while taking vaccinations it hurts... but our parents can afford to pay for it... then why isnt it why me?? v get admitted to another school where v r wanted by the school... lovingly... then why isnt it why me?? u dont becum class monitor.. but u r in a position to take leadership... then why isnt it why me?? u come last in your PT race.. but u can walk and run!!! then why ist it why me?? u dint get admission into college of ur choice...but atleast ur parents r sending u to college... then why isnt it why me?? u flunked a college exam but u r strong enough to pass through that phase... then why isnt it why me?? u see that ur crush already has a GF... so u can see and understand.. then why ist it why me?? u fall ill b4 ur CAT exam so u cant appear for it.. but atleast u think u r capable enough to appear for dat exam... then why isnt it why me??? u hvnt got a job of your choice... but u r lucky enough to have a job atleast.. then why isnt it why me??? ur marriage proposals r rejected... but u too werent too sure abt that guy... then why isnt it why me??? u finally find ur true soulmate and stay away form ur parents... atleast ur husband is capable enough to look after u on his own.... then why isnt it why me??? tough times fall upon u and ur family for some time... but u r lucky enough to have gone through some very good times too... then why isnt it why me??

now will i still think why me????

Writing down thoughts!!!

WELL WELL WELL.... this is my first blog on this profile... i had another blog loong time back which i never bothered to maintain properly... so heres another chance to do it once again!!!

first question.... y is well repeated thrice??? aja, beeja, teeja!! brings good luck i think!!! another question... y am i not following proper rules of punctuation??? i am writing a blog for gods sake!!! not an english exam!!! so my blogs r rarely going to have any punctuations!! these r all random thoughts!!! so they better be random with haphazard thoughts and definitely no punctuation.. coz it would mean dat i have to think a lot b4 writing it down!!! a thought is something which has to come form the heart... not something to please some third party who is trying to read it.... also this blog is like my diary which i first used to maintain and then tore it off sometime back!!! i guess already a lot of lecturebaazi has been done!!!

now coming back to my topic... writing down thoughts.....

why do v feel the need to write down our thoughts??? is it because noone is listenign to us?? or is it because some thgts r better if they r written down rather than being talked about?? or are v scared that someone will laugh at what v have to say... if v say it??? what other way do v have to express our thoughts other than writing it down?? laughing, smiling, crying, dancing?? ya these r ways of expressing our thghts.... but still it doesnot convey everything that v have in our minds.... so dats y most of the times v speak our minds!! but what abt people who cannot speak?? what do they do?? do they write??? what abt people who can talk, but their thgts r suppressed?? do they write??? and what abt people like us who can speak and who donot have to suppress our thghts?? why do v still write???

a question dats puzzling me!!! i dont know the answer for it yet... but hv to think abt it soon!!!

and wot abt GOD?? how does he express his thghts???