a new day has begun

hello friends.........

kinda lost touch with my blog a/c for looooong. was too damn busy to update and put any posts dere. but busy for one whole year????? thats too much na. anyways have again thought of updating the blog from time to time if not regularly.


in the past year there have been innumerable changes in my life......... from being a fat hausfrau in naperville, chicago..... i have come back to amchi mumbai and am a busy busy working woman!!!


working woman! wow dats cool na! why is a working woman considered so different?? i mean dont men also work? do we call them as working men? no na? then y so for women? maybe bcoz we are suppossed to have a place in the home only? be in the kitchen? cook good food? watch tv and discuss the numerous plots in the soap operas?

just now on tv i can see madhuri dixit nene dancing to some song in the upcoming movie aaja nachle. she too is a working woman!! (chuckles) though she must be having a host a of people helping her in domestic work.
hey its farah khans movie trailor now.... OSO..... again another working woman! hell now i see kareena kapoor too! but nah she isnt a working woman!!!!!!! nah! y? coz she isnt married yaar!

that brings me to the conclusion that we still feel after marriage a woman shd be @ home not in the office. y else wld we hv that phrase.... working woman? and ya sometimes the hostility that i have to face from my male colleagues lets me know that according to them i am in an unwanted place or rather that maybe i am snatching their bread and butter! possible na!

i feel a working woman is considered as threat coz men find it perplexing to know that the women is ably managing her home as well as office. how the hell can she do it??? threat hmmmm.... dats an intresting take on working women! and hey there are many things attached to a working woman...... failure in a personal life is attributed to her working status and vice versa! how cool na! blame it somehow or the other on her working status!

behind every succesful man there is a woman! and wot is this woman supposed to do? listen to all the problems that the husband is facing? cook him delicious food and brighten up his mood? help him sort out his problems?
well i will like to change the above phrase a bit:- behind every succesful man there is a succesful working woman!! one who is always dere for the husband when he needs her. one who cooks his favourite dishes. one who sorts out his problems. and one who works and helps him financially too.